Western men fancy Slavic women for the fact that they differ drastically from Western women. They lack emancipation, they respect men, and they are family- rather than career-oriented. So, it makes no surprise that western men linger to online dating services that offer hot Russian or Ukrainian brides. There are a lot of cases where people have met online and then built up successful offline couples. On the other hands, there are certain cases, where everything went perfect online and in the very last moment a Slavic woman refuses to move to the country of her offline lover. So, without further ado, let’s check out the reasons why Slavic women may not want to move to another country.
The Magic Word “Motherland”
Russian and Ukrainian languages are filled with words like “motherland” and “fatherland” and, believe it or not, linguistic influences our life greatly. Because of the huge amount of these words in both languages, Slavic women feel like they have a sacred connection with their land. You are lucky if you picked a girl from Ukraine or Russia, because they are less inclined to become homesick than Polish women. But still, if the girl believes in the sacred connection between her and her “motherland” or “fatherland”, either get ready to move to her homeland or forget about building relationship with a girl like that.
The worst thing you can do when chatting with a Slavic woman is to start complaining about your own country. And this is the most widespread deadly sin committed by western men when it comes to online dating. If you want your Slavic girlfriend to move to your country and marry with you, you must give her comprehensive view on advantages and flaws of your homeland.
Slavic women see western world either as a dream land or something that they won’t be able to understand. That’s why the may have a lack of desire to leave their homeland for the US, the UK, Canada or wherever you are from.
Moreover, you don’t have to pour information about rules and regulations in your country on her. Tell her if she asks or explain how customs and traditions differ in your countries when she mentions cultural peculiarities of her country. That’s the best thing you can do.
Change her mind that your country and your culture is something unexplainable and don’t break the image of your country if she thinks that it is a dream land.
This is the most common and easy to understand reason why Slavic women may not want to leave their homeland for yours. They have family and they are often afraid to leave their relatives. There is a deeper connection with family in Slavic culture than in all of the cultures of the western world. It can really hamper her decision to move to your country. So, what can you do about that?
The best and only thing that you can do is to convince her that she would be able to visit her relatives and you will make everything to make it possible for her relatives to visit her.
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