What is it about men and the F Word? And by that I mean Feelings. Why are we unable to get an emotion out of a guy? Is it something they are born with, or something they learn over Xbox and packets of pork scratchings. Trying to get an emotion out of a guy is like trying to muffin top yourself into those size 6 jeans. As long as you wear a long top, some heels and large accessories nobody will know that the button mark has now indented itself onto your belly button.
Itâ€™s the same with blokes, if they donâ€™t talk about it its not really there. If a guy has a problem then itâ€™s a case of doing everything they possibly can not to deal with it. Theyâ€™ll go for a drink, wash the car or play Xbox. They seem to have no problem with bottling those demons about work, friends or relationships up. Itâ€™s us girls thatâ€™s that want to wrench it out of them, like a teenager with too much ache. Pick, pick, pick we go until all the venom is out of you.
Half the time the problem is not even with you and it lies with us. If us girls have a problem we like to talk it through with our girlfriends, get a 2nd, 3rd, 4th opinion from the barmaid after one too many chardonnays. We need to seek advice from our nearest and dearest and that includes you boys too. Donâ€™t get me wrong, nobody likes an emotional wreck of a girlfriend; boohooing because Billy Mitchell â€˜just canâ€™t catch a breakâ€™. Or because your best mate said those jeans are in fact too tight for you. Nevertheless we girls need a little TLC from our boyfriends sometimes.
When we are seen to be slumped in the other room watching re runs of How I Met Your Mother, necking a large glass of vino; know that popping your head around the bedroom door with a “You ok babe?” and walking off is never going to suffice. Ignoring us will only anger us and we will be forced to plot ways to hurt your Xbox in our dreams. To be ignored is like being dragged past Kurt Geiger in a hurry because “you donâ€™t need another pair of shoes”. Itâ€™s because we think that you donâ€™t care, when deep (deep) down we know you do. We donâ€™t need a rendition of A Midsummer Nights Dream (complete with feather hat and quill)â€¦ trust me we have no delusions of grandeur here. Just for you to listen, smile, nod along and put your arm around us and tell us itâ€™s ok.
Boys would rather run into the arms of the public house than see us girls upset, not because you donâ€™t care but because you donâ€™t know how to handle us. Having an emotional conversation with your girlfriend is about as appealing as sitting through the opera. Long winded, tearful and sometimes high pitched.
We are simple creatures really… honest. We donâ€™t bite but we may cry a bit. Just donâ€™t mention our muffin top!