London Life Coach & Relationship Expert Sloan Sheridan-Williams talks about workplace dating. Follow Sloan on Twitter @SloanSW_London and check out Sloan’s website www.sloansw.com
Dating at work is definitely becoming more commonplace but just because everyone else is doing it, does that mean you should too? If that was the case then I’d dye my hair the new trendy shade of orange in the style of Pixie Geldof and watch as my clients flocked anywhere but my therapy couch!
Dating is a form of interaction -Â in the olden days more a courtship. With the hours of workers increasing and the recession playing its part in the reduction in socialising, is it any wonder we are looking to find love over the photocopier?
The muddy waters tend to appear if you work in very close proximity or the hierarchy of either of your positions has an effect on your working life.
I am not saying you cannot meet the perfect person for you at work, but just before you jump in with both feet, perhaps ask yourself:
1. Is this just a natural progression asÂ we spend so much time together and we would like to get to know each other on a romantic level?
2. Would I still have chosen to date my current object of affection if I managed my time better, accepted a few more invitations out with my friends and opened myself up to meeting new people?
If your answer to the first question was yes, perhaps take the leap but don’t forget your safety net. If you answered yes to the second, run while you still can – you deserve better.
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