Being single is something we all seem experience at some point in our lives; regardless of how we end up being alone its inevitable for most. But like most things in life being single has its ins and outs, up and downs and miss and preconceptions.
We all know better than anyone else how we are when weâ€™re single and overall it would ultimately come down to how we ended up like that, but nonetheless being the simple humans we are it isnâ€™t very hard to slap a label on it. There are many different types of singletons and we all individually embrace it in our own ways, each to their own and all that, but it generally falls into it into 3 categories.
There is a slight misconception when it comes to leading the single life and itâ€™s understandableâ€¦ it would appear that being single goes hand in hand with having fun.There are worries that you can only have one or the other, independence or a committed relationship…introducing theÂ YWF.
The Young Wild & Free (YWF) Single
This is pretty much what it says on the tin. People sometimes see relationships as a burden or a sacrifice of any remotely interesting life whatsoever, so when they are single there is an over excessive need to â€˜live it upâ€™.Â Take the likes of pop star Rihanna; we constantly see outrageous images of her â€˜enjoyingâ€™ being alone and you wouldnâ€™t be wrong in assuming it was probably the best, unremembered, nights of her life. These are qualities the â€˜YWFâ€™ singles tend to have. Life is taken in its stride and every day is Friday *fist pumps*.
But donâ€™t be fooled by the wild nights out, constant picture uploads and â€˜OMG! WTF! BEST NIGHT EVERâ€™ captions. It may look fun to an outsider looking in but the reality might display a broken person who is not very accepting of their circumstances at all. Itâ€™s all a faÃ§adeâ€¦ maybe?
Meanwhile on the other side of the spectrum there are the people who just canâ€™t seem to understand why the heck they are single?? In theory they have it all, looks, money; you name it, but always fall short at the hands of cupids bow and arrow. “What gives?” is a question they are all too familiar with; however there is no actual answer. This type of single carries a slight arrogance to their nature, obviously.Â Many of us are guilty of this next point from time to time, but If you find yourself looking on at couples, more times than deemed sane,Â and wonder what on earth she/he has that you donâ€™t, that he/she is in a relationship and you arenâ€™tâ€¦ you are in fact the “Why am I single” person. But not to worry thereâ€™s never actually anything wrong with you; youâ€™re apparently just “looking in ALL the wrong places”. ALWAYS.
Last but not least…
The WASP (well-adjusted single person)
The WASP. Possibly the best single person you can come across. They have it all in check. A WASP might be in a relationship and be completely content but can also completely accept when they are not. For them being single does not necessarily mean they are looking. It is the middle point between the previous two which allows them to enjoy being single without blind sighting the future in terms of love and relationship. The best quote for a well-adjusted single person would be â€˜when life gives you lemons make lemonadeâ€™ and this is exactly what a WASP does. They have the blueprints for nearly everything in their lives; except of course how to stay in the relationship but not everything needs a plan I guess.
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